Koi-lo and Chelle wrote,
he is yet to
do anything to it though and we have had it for 18 months, but he tells
his friends about "his" marine tank. .............

LOL!!! Typical man! .............

I can see that - for a few years I was into line breeding. A log was
kept not only of the tanks water parameters, but also on the breeders
and their offspring. With 104 tanks, nights and weekends my wife and a
couple of neighborhood kids would help out with the feeding,
maintenance and log writing/keeping (like Chelle said she does), but
that didn't change anything, the fish were mine! So I side with
Chelle's husband - he owns them and just lets her 'think' she does!
Just ask him ;-) ............... Frank