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![]() Ahhhh.....I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 1 1/2 yr. old friendly goldfish i wouldn't take money for, so i understand. Time will heal you. And like you wanted, maybe you can learn and prevent it from happening again. Last year i had thousands of tadpoles that i killed trying to save. It took months to stop feeling guilty. This year i am leaving well enough alone and will watch for stressed fish, then i'll bring them in or something. On Mon, 29 Mar 2004 06:38:23 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Hi. If you recall I wrote about a week ago with my koi hiding and dying. Some of you suggested nitrite poisoning, which made sense, and when I tested the water, the nitrites were high. I have been doing water changes, adding salt, firing up the pump and filter, added 2 more airstones, etc. and the water tests fine now. Unfortunately, I lost 4 of my very large, "been with me from the start" koi. I still break down and cry a lot, especially when I'm out working on the pond, and most people think I'm nuts, but I knew people here could relate - they were my "babies", I raised them from only a couple of inches long, they ate out of my hand, followed me around the pond, etc. Of course a part of it is the guilt - I feel as if I killed them or let them down. But anyway, sorry for the venting, here are my real questions: why is it I still have quite a few small fish and koi fry that survived, and only the big ones didn't make it? I thought it would be the other way around with nitrite poisoning. And secondly, I still need to know WHY I had a nitrite problem this winter - it's never happened before. It would be easier to deal with this and prevent it from ever happening again if I knew WHAT I was dealing with. Thanks for letting me vent - nice to know there's a place where I can cry over fish and not feel like a fool. Sue |
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Boy can I relate to THAT! I took two of the large koi and tried to "save"
them by putting them in a huge tub with 2/3 pond water and 1/3 tap water, but of course I conditioned the tap water first, removed chlorine, etc. I then added some salt and hoped I could miraculously heal them in this hospital tub. Of course when they died I fel the horrible guilt as if I had killed them trying to save them . . . I'll never know if they would have made it had I left them alone. I, too, am going to leave well enough alone from now on and do all I can WITHOUT disturbing the balance of things. The change might be enough to push them over the edge. Of course, had they died in the pond, I'd always wonder if I could have saved them by putting them in a tub, etc. Guilt. What a useless, but powerful emotion. Sue "jammer" wrote in message ... Ahhhh.....I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 1 1/2 yr. old friendly goldfish i wouldn't take money for, so i understand. Time will heal you. And like you wanted, maybe you can learn and prevent it from happening again. Last year i had thousands of tadpoles that i killed trying to save. It took months to stop feeling guilty. This year i am leaving well enough alone and will watch for stressed fish, then i'll bring them in or something. On Mon, 29 Mar 2004 06:38:23 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Hi. If you recall I wrote about a week ago with my koi hiding and dying. Some of you suggested nitrite poisoning, which made sense, and when I tested the water, the nitrites were high. I have been doing water changes, adding salt, firing up the pump and filter, added 2 more airstones, etc. and the water tests fine now. Unfortunately, I lost 4 of my very large, "been with me from the start" koi. I still break down and cry a lot, especially when I'm out working on the pond, and most people think I'm nuts, but I knew people here could relate - they were my "babies", I raised them from only a couple of inches long, they ate out of my hand, followed me around the pond, etc. Of course a part of it is the guilt - I feel as if I killed them or let them down. But anyway, sorry for the venting, here are my real questions: why is it I still have quite a few small fish and koi fry that survived, and only the big ones didn't make it? I thought it would be the other way around with nitrite poisoning. And secondly, I still need to know WHY I had a nitrite problem this winter - it's never happened before. It would be easier to deal with this and prevent it from ever happening again if I knew WHAT I was dealing with. Thanks for letting me vent - nice to know there's a place where I can cry over fish and not feel like a fool. Sue |
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Boy can I relate to THAT! I took two of the large koi and tried to "save"
them by putting them in a huge tub with 2/3 pond water and 1/3 tap water, but of course I conditioned the tap water first, removed chlorine, etc. I then added some salt and hoped I could miraculously heal them in this hospital tub. Of course when they died I fel the horrible guilt as if I had killed them trying to save them . . . I'll never know if they would have made it had I left them alone. I, too, am going to leave well enough alone from now on and do all I can WITHOUT disturbing the balance of things. The change might be enough to push them over the edge. Of course, had they died in the pond, I'd always wonder if I could have saved them by putting them in a tub, etc. Guilt. What a useless, but powerful emotion. Sue "jammer" wrote in message ... Ahhhh.....I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 1 1/2 yr. old friendly goldfish i wouldn't take money for, so i understand. Time will heal you. And like you wanted, maybe you can learn and prevent it from happening again. Last year i had thousands of tadpoles that i killed trying to save. It took months to stop feeling guilty. This year i am leaving well enough alone and will watch for stressed fish, then i'll bring them in or something. On Mon, 29 Mar 2004 06:38:23 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Hi. If you recall I wrote about a week ago with my koi hiding and dying. Some of you suggested nitrite poisoning, which made sense, and when I tested the water, the nitrites were high. I have been doing water changes, adding salt, firing up the pump and filter, added 2 more airstones, etc. and the water tests fine now. Unfortunately, I lost 4 of my very large, "been with me from the start" koi. I still break down and cry a lot, especially when I'm out working on the pond, and most people think I'm nuts, but I knew people here could relate - they were my "babies", I raised them from only a couple of inches long, they ate out of my hand, followed me around the pond, etc. Of course a part of it is the guilt - I feel as if I killed them or let them down. But anyway, sorry for the venting, here are my real questions: why is it I still have quite a few small fish and koi fry that survived, and only the big ones didn't make it? I thought it would be the other way around with nitrite poisoning. And secondly, I still need to know WHY I had a nitrite problem this winter - it's never happened before. It would be easier to deal with this and prevent it from ever happening again if I knew WHAT I was dealing with. Thanks for letting me vent - nice to know there's a place where I can cry over fish and not feel like a fool. Sue |
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Exactly. It was after i removed them that they died. I'll never know.
On Tue, 30 Mar 2004 00:06:59 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Boy can I relate to THAT! I took two of the large koi and tried to "save" them by putting them in a huge tub with 2/3 pond water and 1/3 tap water, but of course I conditioned the tap water first, removed chlorine, etc. I then added some salt and hoped I could miraculously heal them in this hospital tub. Of course when they died I fel the horrible guilt as if I had killed them trying to save them . . . I'll never know if they would have made it had I left them alone. I, too, am going to leave well enough alone from now on and do all I can WITHOUT disturbing the balance of things. The change might be enough to push them over the edge. Of course, had they died in the pond, I'd always wonder if I could have saved them by putting them in a tub, etc. Guilt. What a useless, but powerful emotion. Sue "jammer" wrote in message .. . Ahhhh.....I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 1 1/2 yr. old friendly goldfish i wouldn't take money for, so i understand. Time will heal you. And like you wanted, maybe you can learn and prevent it from happening again. Last year i had thousands of tadpoles that i killed trying to save. It took months to stop feeling guilty. This year i am leaving well enough alone and will watch for stressed fish, then i'll bring them in or something. On Mon, 29 Mar 2004 06:38:23 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Hi. If you recall I wrote about a week ago with my koi hiding and dying. Some of you suggested nitrite poisoning, which made sense, and when I tested the water, the nitrites were high. I have been doing water changes, adding salt, firing up the pump and filter, added 2 more airstones, etc. and the water tests fine now. Unfortunately, I lost 4 of my very large, "been with me from the start" koi. I still break down and cry a lot, especially when I'm out working on the pond, and most people think I'm nuts, but I knew people here could relate - they were my "babies", I raised them from only a couple of inches long, they ate out of my hand, followed me around the pond, etc. Of course a part of it is the guilt - I feel as if I killed them or let them down. But anyway, sorry for the venting, here are my real questions: why is it I still have quite a few small fish and koi fry that survived, and only the big ones didn't make it? I thought it would be the other way around with nitrite poisoning. And secondly, I still need to know WHY I had a nitrite problem this winter - it's never happened before. It would be easier to deal with this and prevent it from ever happening again if I knew WHAT I was dealing with. Thanks for letting me vent - nice to know there's a place where I can cry over fish and not feel like a fool. Sue |
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Exactly. It was after i removed them that they died. I'll never know.
On Tue, 30 Mar 2004 00:06:59 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Boy can I relate to THAT! I took two of the large koi and tried to "save" them by putting them in a huge tub with 2/3 pond water and 1/3 tap water, but of course I conditioned the tap water first, removed chlorine, etc. I then added some salt and hoped I could miraculously heal them in this hospital tub. Of course when they died I fel the horrible guilt as if I had killed them trying to save them . . . I'll never know if they would have made it had I left them alone. I, too, am going to leave well enough alone from now on and do all I can WITHOUT disturbing the balance of things. The change might be enough to push them over the edge. Of course, had they died in the pond, I'd always wonder if I could have saved them by putting them in a tub, etc. Guilt. What a useless, but powerful emotion. Sue "jammer" wrote in message .. . Ahhhh.....I am so sorry for your loss. I have a 1 1/2 yr. old friendly goldfish i wouldn't take money for, so i understand. Time will heal you. And like you wanted, maybe you can learn and prevent it from happening again. Last year i had thousands of tadpoles that i killed trying to save. It took months to stop feeling guilty. This year i am leaving well enough alone and will watch for stressed fish, then i'll bring them in or something. On Mon, 29 Mar 2004 06:38:23 -0500, "SueAndHerZoo" wrote: Hi. If you recall I wrote about a week ago with my koi hiding and dying. Some of you suggested nitrite poisoning, which made sense, and when I tested the water, the nitrites were high. I have been doing water changes, adding salt, firing up the pump and filter, added 2 more airstones, etc. and the water tests fine now. Unfortunately, I lost 4 of my very large, "been with me from the start" koi. I still break down and cry a lot, especially when I'm out working on the pond, and most people think I'm nuts, but I knew people here could relate - they were my "babies", I raised them from only a couple of inches long, they ate out of my hand, followed me around the pond, etc. Of course a part of it is the guilt - I feel as if I killed them or let them down. But anyway, sorry for the venting, here are my real questions: why is it I still have quite a few small fish and koi fry that survived, and only the big ones didn't make it? I thought it would be the other way around with nitrite poisoning. And secondly, I still need to know WHY I had a nitrite problem this winter - it's never happened before. It would be easier to deal with this and prevent it from ever happening again if I knew WHAT I was dealing with. Thanks for letting me vent - nice to know there's a place where I can cry over fish and not feel like a fool. Sue |
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lady who sits nearby shouted out "I don't know about her pond, but SHE needs
to get a life - she's actually upset about some of her fish dying!" Sounds like someone needs to go to sensitivity traning. Sheesh. You should have heard me threatening K30 this afternoon regarding taking some of my frog spawn, not to leave it in the car! Shameless Am I. Just as an added note, the dead fish did not die in a pretty state. They all had blood in their fins and some areas of their bodies, and the fins were all frayed and tattered looking. Usually there is ammonia before nitrite, and the above sounds like serious ammonia happened. Perhaps by the time you noticed a problem and checked it the ammonia had converted to Nitrite. Even a continous low level of ammonia can be stressful, as I found out last year, when I hit Critical Mass. Now I have plenty of ammonia detoxer on hand, and started testing my water early on. I've had one test show an inkling of ammonia after I started the filter, so I treated it, so far so good now. I have 5 fewer fish than last year at this time, so I should be good. If I have trouble I've already picked out who gets sold. Very important to have the treatments handy and fresh test kits, that you use. ~ jan (Do you know where your water quality is?) |
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lady who sits nearby shouted out "I don't know about her pond, but SHE needs
to get a life - she's actually upset about some of her fish dying!" Sounds like someone needs to go to sensitivity traning. Sheesh. You should have heard me threatening K30 this afternoon regarding taking some of my frog spawn, not to leave it in the car! Shameless Am I. Just as an added note, the dead fish did not die in a pretty state. They all had blood in their fins and some areas of their bodies, and the fins were all frayed and tattered looking. Usually there is ammonia before nitrite, and the above sounds like serious ammonia happened. Perhaps by the time you noticed a problem and checked it the ammonia had converted to Nitrite. Even a continous low level of ammonia can be stressful, as I found out last year, when I hit Critical Mass. Now I have plenty of ammonia detoxer on hand, and started testing my water early on. I've had one test show an inkling of ammonia after I started the filter, so I treated it, so far so good now. I have 5 fewer fish than last year at this time, so I should be good. If I have trouble I've already picked out who gets sold. Very important to have the treatments handy and fresh test kits, that you use. ~ jan (Do you know where your water quality is?) |
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